Sorry friends, no real letter this year, either. And though none of this is news if you're reading the blog regularly, I still wanted to put together some thoughts on the year that was. Love to all.
December 2013
Greetings, friends and family!
I would have started this letter earlier, but I had a baby in my lap. And that pretty much sums up 2013 for the Hollands!
All right, that’s a bit too concise. But when the year started we did not know we’d be having our fourth baby in early October. But that’s what ended up happening, and the day we first set eyes on Isaac Evert Holland was the day our family felt complete.
But the new guy represents just 25 percent of the boys living in our house. What about the other three?
Jack turned 9 in April and now is in fourth grade, which in our district means a new building. He’s having by far his best year ever. His teachers love having him in class, and they even say he’s helpful to them — whether inventing an attendance system and quiz games for his classroom or troubleshooting problems on their iPhones, they have made it clear he’s a great student. He also loves to help work in the video recording room at church and still has a good time with many Cub Scouts activities. Also he is quite fond of Minecraft, which is a momentous understatement.
Max turned 5 in March started kindergarten in August. Afternoons only, but he rides the big yellow bus and could not have more fun. That’s not a huge surprise given how much he loved preschool, but it’s great to see him get off to such a good start. He played park district soccer in the fall (somehow dad got asked to help coach) and also is doing the choir at church. And I lost track of how many birthday parties we attended.
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| Merry Christmas from the Hollands — all six of us! |
Charlie turned 2 in February. He continues to be a little chatterbox and is quite proud of his counting skills. He’s got zero interest in potty training but remains the world’s greatest hugger, plus his kissing technique has improved such that he hardly ever leaves slobber on cheeks. He started the Bible Time for Toddlers and Sunday school programs at church this fall and delights in the classroom environment. Maybe that’s because of the snacks and art projects, but we’re not complaining!
And back to Isaac, who has only been with us a couple of months. He weighed 8 pounds, 12 ounces at birth (a new record for us) and has been growing steadily since. Shortly after we got home from the hospital we went right back because he spiked a pretty high fever, but it all cleared up in good time and life got back to normal. He’s now a smiling little nugget who actually slept through the night four or five days in a row earlier this month before deciding he couldn’t bear to go that many hours without seeing our living faces.
With Isaac due in early October, Kristie and I didn’t join the church bell choirs when they started in September. That was a good plan, seeing as that’s right about the time we had a sewer problem and some serious house damage as a result. Everything is almost entirely put back together — finally. Kristie also recently completed the process of closing her home-based cloth diaper store, which means in the next few weeks we can bring stuff back into the basement and free up our playroom and garage.
Not much change for me with regards to work and writing on the side, but it will be nice to try to get back to something of a regular schedule when Isaac gets a bit older and more predictable. Kristie and I both spend a fair amount of time driving the kids hither and yon, plus running errands and doing chores around the house. The water meter keeps spinning with all the laundry, dishes and baths, but it’s a blessing for us all to be able to spend so much time together.
One highlight of the year was a July trip to Nashville, Tenn., with my parents and siblings, where we met up with some of my mom’s family from North Carolina. It was a lot of time in the minivan, but a great few days in a new city and a wonderful way to celebrate my mom’s 60th birthday. And the boys (especially Jack and Max) got to spend some good time in Fulton with Kristie’s parents throughout the year. Hopefully there will be even more of that as travel with the little guy gets easier.
We also enjoyed a snowy visit to a largely empty Shedd Aquarium for Max’s birthday in March and a few trips to the Lake Michigan shore to skip rocks and fly kites. Plus, this was the year Kristie’s family pooled together to get us season passes to Six Flags for Christmas, so we spent many summer days and nights riding coasters, eating fried stuff and rocking out to the laser-light, pyrotechnic song-and-dance show at the end of the night. The boys must have had a blast because they were more than ready to sign up to do it all again next summer.
Next March we’ll mark five years in our Gurnee home — three cheers for stability! — and in the fall Max will start first grade and Charlie will be in preschool a few days a week… so even as things stay the same life continues to change as the boys get older. We might think things are a bit hectic now with a newborn, but by this time next year he should be up and running around, making just as much noise as the rest of them. What do I want for Christmas? A nap.
As usual, we hope this letter finds you happy and healthy, reflecting on a good year and looking forward to another. Grace and peace to you and yours.
With love,
Scott, Kristie, Jack, Max, Charlie and Isaac