Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Weekend at How's
The main purpose of the trip was for a family photo shoot with Bill Delp. In addition to being a family friend (a high school classmate of How), Bill is a fantastic photographer who shot our wedding, plus a great session with Jack when he was a few months shy of where Max is now. Bill not only produces amazing art, he's also great to work with — always an important consideration when our kids are involved.
I wish I'd brought our camera to get video of Bill trying to get both boys to sit down in the same door frame, but I lacked the foresight. I'm just thrilled we were able to do an outdoor shoot. I know the shots of each kid will be spectacular, and perhaps he got a few great frames of both boys. Whether or not we succeeded in getting a good shot of all four of us is debatable.
I don't need to recap the entire weekend, as it was mostly spent enjoying time at the Workman compound. Very relaxing, lots of good food and one angry cat. Did I mention the weather?
Here's some photos. The first is actually form our last trip to Fulton. It was on How's camera, and I finally snagged it for my computer.
| From How's House |
Since we pulled Jack out of school Friday, his teacher asked us to keep a journal of our trip (yes, his kindergarten teacher...). That's why we took this picture of Jack and How playing Wii (Max helped). Maybe How will get her own Wii for Christmas so she can practice and get good enough to beat Jack. Then we won't have to pack ours every time we head west. Of course, then Uncle Kyle might get really, really good and break all of Kristie's Wii Sports Resort records.
| From How's House |
It actually was neat for us to do the journal project (and when I say us, I mean Kristie and Jack) because it let How see Jack's writing "skills." He actually impressed all of his us with his drawings of the events. It's not that they were great drawings, but that he was able to sketch something and we all knew what it was — een picking up small details — was pretty impressive, especially for a guy who inherited my lack of fine motor skills.
The next shot is Max smiling over Saturday morning breakfast.
| From How's House |
Just like the rest of us, Max goes to How's house to eat. He was in and out of the chair time and again. He can climb in himself, which is not quite a blessing since he thinks the tray is as sturdy as the one in our high chair in Gurnee. No major or minor spills, but at least one close call. Also, this may have been the day he threw oatmeal all over the kitchen while I was checking on Jack in the computer room.
| From How's House |
Another photo of Max eating. Note the fork in his left hand... and the food (mac and cheese) in his right. Way to grasp the concept, buddy.
We close it out with a great photo of Max and Pop playing in the living room. Max was very, very happy during this time. Hopefully the picture conveys some of that elation.
| From How's House |
Missing forest for some yummy trees
A week ago today, news broke at the Ottawa City Council meeting that a Culver's restaurant will open on the town's north end.
Predictably, the complaints from those who seem to complain about everything began to roll in nearly immediately. The newsroom posted a note about the item to Facebook at 8:14 p.m. Two minutes later, the first commenter said, "Really, can't we get good food?" Agreements followed in rapid succession, with many people suggesting other restaurants they'd rather see set up shop in the Friendly City.
It reminded me of when I wrote for the newspaper in Clinton, Iowa, when news of any new restaurant opening was quickly greeted with a chorus of people calling for a Red Lobster or an Olive Garden. Such sentiments get real tired real fast, and they say more about the complainer than anything else.
Why isn't Ottawa getting a Red Lobster? The same reason Ottawa isn't getting an indoor water park or a new golf course or a Porsche dealership: the economy won't support it.
Developing commercial real estate is not a complete game of chance. There is risk involved, to be sure (exhibit A: the late Ottawa Starbucks). But the companies and developers that last in this country do so by smart growth, not just plopping things wherever they please.
Furthermore, the people who develop commercial real estate really, really like to make money. So if someone thought an Olive Garden would be profitable in Clinton or Ottawa, it would already be open. Before you complain about what restaurants we don't have, consider how expensive such places are to operate, and how many people must walk through the door each night just to break even. How much of the bottom line are you willing to account for personally?
Continue reading "Missing forest for some yummy trees."
Labels: columns
Tuesday, November 03, 2009
Still trying to understand insurance reform
Longtime readers know I'm a lifelong Cubs fan, which clearly means I'm a glutton for punishment. On a completely unrelated note, time for another look at the ongoing health-care reform debate.
The more I read about the current state of health care in America, the more I'm convinced the health insurance industry is at least as confusing as the subprime mortgage "scandal" that contributed to the ongoing economic slump. I have a mortgage, and I have health insurance, but I really understand very little about either. Maybe that's simply a reflection on my effort and intelligence, but I doubt many average Americans can fully explain their own health policy and completely understand what their provider will and won't cover.
That's a leading reason why it's difficult to make simple arguments. Gregg Easterbook, a writer I've long admired, argued recently for a switch to a model similar to how we handle car and home insurance, "in which most people carry only catastrophic-cost insurance, then pay other health costs themselves."
With my house and car insurance policies, I pay a premium to AllState. For the house, it's rolled into my escrow account with property taxes and the mortgage. For car insurance it's due every six months (or I can pay in monthly installments so long as I pay $3 each month for that convenience).
When the paperwork comes in the mail, I look it over to make sure everything is spelled right, as well as to eyeball the benefit and deductible amounts, then I stick it in a file cabinet and hope to high heaven I never need to use either policy.
When I need an oil change, I pay out of pocket — the same price everyone else pays. When I need a new furnace filter, I buy one off the shelf. Again, same price as everyone else who needs the same filter. If my water heater breaks, it's my job to call the plumber and have him install a new one.
Continue reading "Still trying to understand insurance reform."
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Monday, November 02, 2009
Max the Spider
| From Hollands at Home |
Unfortunately, his energy waned as we were far away from our home in our subdivision (Kristie's initial plan to loop was sound, but the loop was to small for Jack). Good news, we had the wagon for Max, so both boys enjoyed a ride home... which included going past what can best be described as a tailgate party in one family's driveway. Card tables lined with food, gas grill going, portable campfire, TV with rabbit ears and college football and so on. Many neighbors had signs directing people to the party ("Candy, three houses down") and sure enough, there were people with big bowls of candy right at the sidewalk, perfect for two boys in a wagon. (Moral of the story? We need to be friends with these people.)
And what was Max, you ask? Only the cutest spider in the history of time. Want proof? Do I ever disappoint?
| From Hollands at Home |
Here also is a video of Max not quite understanding how things work.
Here's a shorter clip of Doodle walking and saying "Hi" to Kristie. Quick, but cute.
One of the snags in the system is that we started the day by giving out treats, so Max started to think that's how Halloween works. Which means when we did get him up to someone's door, he'd reach into his bucket and try to pass candy to the homeowner.
He also somehow learned to be possessive of his stash. We were walking down a sidewalk and I reach into his bucket for a Snickers. He stopped, looked at me and gave me the whine face until I put the candy back. Well excuuuuuuuse me! (I stole it again a few minutes later when he was more distracted, and it was delicious.)
| From Hollands at Home |
We'd planned to have dinner at Pops & K's Saturday night, so we headed south around 4:30 p.m. (Gurnee trick-or-treating is from 2 to 6 p.m., in Libertyville it's 4 to 8 p.m.). Both boys passed out in the car, so we left them there in the driveway for at least 45 minutes. But we eventually brought them inside (both cranky) and worked on dinner. Then it was back on with the costumes for another quick candy run on McKinley and Drake, which was a pretty good haul for Jack despite not every house being "open."
All in all, a fantastic day. We'll just not discuss the effect of Amoxicillin on Max's digestive system and pretend this was a perfect weekend.
Labels: Jack, Libertyville, Max, photos, video
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Happy Halloween!
| From Hollands at Home |
That's right, he's beloved video game character Mario!

Friday, October 30, 2009
Halloween through the years
2004: Winnie the Pooh
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| From Jack's First Seven Months |
2005: Scarecrow
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| From Clinton Life |
2006: Skeleton
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| From Clinton Life |
2007: Mom is pregnant, Jack is sick... no costume.
2008: Ghost (school costume)
| From Ottawa Life |
2008: Handy Manny (real costume)
| From Pops and K's |
Thursday, October 29, 2009
Blog, blurg
Dating back to Monday, Oct. 19, everyone at our house has been somewhat ill. It started with Jack, who stayed home from school that day with a fever (I think he was coming down with it all weekend) and got progressively worse until he went to the doctor Wednesday afternoon. Verdict? Ear infection, though that doesn't explain his horrendous coughing fits.
Kristie and I started feeling less than 100 percent Thursday morning, and Max started crashing hard over the weekend. He went to the doctor Monday afternoon (strep throat) and Kristie went to her own doctor Wednesday (ear infection, plus something the requires prescription eye drops). I'm the only one who's managed to stay above grade with only OTC meds, but it's been a less-than-pleasant fortnight for this particular Holland crew.
Summing up all of our feelings is this picture of Doodle, sporting the pose he adopts every time he sees a dropper full of neon pink Amoxicillin.
| From Hollands at Home |
Counting life's little blessings
Since I used my space last week airing a collection of grievances, I thought I'd do a reversal and take some time this week to highlight things that delight me to no end, perhaps even more than they should for a person who claims to have a proper perspective on life in 2009.
For starters, my digital video recorder. I know I've expounded on the virtues of a DVR before, but the wonders of this technology — especially for parents of young children — can't be overstated.
You can have your independent films, your cutting-edge music, your great American novels. My cultural addiction is television, and the DVR keeps me connected. I never miss an episode of "Jeopardy!" I can pause a baseball game at a crucial moment because it's time to put the kids to bed. I can zip through an hourlong drama in 40 minutes. I can fall deeply in love with a new sitcom and yet be totally unaware of what time it actually airs.
For me, the DVR is the ultimate "how did we live without..." development in recent years. This is not to detract from things like cell phones, microwaves and Facebook, which all have impacted me in profound and lasting manners. But the DVR, to me, is like indoor plumbing. Sure, I could watch TV the way I used to. But I'd no sooner revert to that than I would trade out my three toilets for a nice collection of chamber pots.
Another thing I've been reveling in lately? The afternoon walk. Weather permitting (and I'm willing to tolerate quite a bit on that front), tacking a 15- to 20-minute stroll through the neighborhood at the end of the lunch hour has gone from a fitness concession to an almost essential element of overall happiness.
Continue reading "Counting life's little blessings."
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Thursday, October 22, 2009
Jack! Wake up!
| From Hollands at Home |
Some things just drive you bonkers
Pardon me if I come across too much like Andy Rooney, but do you ever just want to complain about things?
I'm far too young to be considered a crotchety old man, but some things just drive me bonkers. Like seeing Christmas merchandise in a store weeks before Halloween. I understand retailers are probably just giving the people what they want, but I don't think I'll ever be comfortable with the commercialization of a supposedly religious holiday.
Of course, we just had Sweetest Day this weekend, and I can't stand Hallmark holidays, either. Maybe it's just that after all these years as a Cub fan, I've decided to don't like celebrating anything.
I'm also annoyed with political advertising. The next gubernatorial election in Illinois is more than a year away, yet the primary campaign is in third gear. It's a fine time for us to watch same-party opponents blast each other and to take note of what they say, since the loser probably will support the winner when it comes time to actually decide who's in charge.
Not to mention how much money is spent producing advertisements full of mudslinging and half-truths, all for the chance to run a state so broke it makes Humpty-Dumpty look spotless. Could those resources be better allocated? Yes, yes they could.
I'm also fed up with political extremism from people who ought to know better. We spent the better part of eight years hearing people on the left complain about how George W. Bush was an insult to the Oval Office, and now the right is saying the same about Barack Obama. The funny part is both sides seem unable to comprehend how anyone could hold an opposing viewpoint.
On national issues, I tend to look at things from an isolated standpoint — not judge based on which party is advancing the cause. And yet I feel those of us in the middle are perceived as just being wishy-washy, when the truth is we're simply fed up with closed-minded loudmouths from both sides of the aisle controlling all the soapboxes.
Speaking of things that make me angry...
Continue reading "Some things just drive you bonkers."
Labels: columns
Max likes leaves
| From Hollands at Home |
Max likes to play with leaves. I'm not sure how he learned this is a fun activity, because last fall he was too young to participate, and I doubt he remembered Jack's excitement.
We did have a summer night (early August) where I had enough leaves to scrape together a decent pile (far, far too early in the summer for that to be possible, but the weather was weird this year) and I had both boys outside enjoying the results. Still, I don't recall Max being so excited about the experience that he would beg to repeat it (as he does with wagon rides, blowing bubbles, etc.)
But last Saturday, my first real leaf attack of the fall, I brought the Doodle outside with me and left Jack inside on the couch (his choice). While Max isn't overly fond of the leaf blower (we've been noticing him covering his ears a lot lately when we sees a big vehicle, probably an aftershock of fire trucks in the homecoming parade), he knew exactly what to do with a big ol' pile of leaves.
Jack did come outside after Kristie came home from her haircut. Kristie took this picture, which proves we did a good thing by getting Jack's hair cut later that day.
| From Hollands at Home |
The weather in the Chicago area was gorgeous Wednesday. And while most of our family is sick (Jack has an ear infection and hasn't been in school all week, Kristie got an hour of sleep last night and Max went to bed with a fever), Max and I took advantage by doing more leaf work. The Waste Management leaf vacuum comes Thursday, and the trees had dropped a lot more since Saturday afternoon, so there was about 30 minutes worth of work to do.
| From Hollands at Home |
I guess it could have gone faster if I hadn't stopped so often to watch Max enjoying himself. What can I say? The kid loves leaves.
| From Hollands at Home |
Labels: Jack, Max, photos, video
Friday, October 16, 2009
House Project update
| From House Project |
| From House Project |
This is the parking pad directly to the east of the driveway. It was installed two or three summers ago, but had to be reworked after the driveway was repoured.
| From House Project |
| From House Project |
This is a look from where the landscaping ends in the side yard on the west of the house, looking south toward McKinley Avenue.
| From House Project |
| From House Project |
Labels: Libertyville, photos
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
How and Max
| From How's House |
Jack taught Max to say a bunch of words in the car on the way to Fulton (including How), but Max decided he'd rather say Kyle's name. Still, it didn't keep them from enjoying some quality time together.
Labels: Jack, Max, photos, video
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
Max likes to dance
Sunday, October 11, 2009
The cleaners
Jackspeak
1. Said to one of Uncle Kyle's golf teammates, who was selecting a Mii for a game of Wii Golf, and pointing at the Max icon: "That's our baby, Doodle."
2. Saturday morning, I came out of the bathroom and found Max (previously in bed) standing in the living room. "Where did you come from?" I asked. Jack chimed in: "Mom's tummy."
Friday, October 09, 2009
Max likes to read
| From Hollands at Home |
In the last two weeks or so, Max has discovered books. He's always had them, of course (we own more children's book than a small public library), but Max never seemed too interested in doing anything more than turning the pages as fast as possible and moving on to something else.
We read to Jack from almost the day he was born. At first it was because I had nothing to say to the kid, but I wanted him to hear my voice. I used to read him stories from the Chicago Tribune sports section. I remember clearly one night, very early in his life, putting him in his baby swing and reading to him from a Mother Goose book the Ergangs gave us as a baby gift.
From there, though, I seem to recall us reading to Jack a whole bunch. We read some of his books so often I still have them memorized. Books have been part of his bedtime routine for years, and I simply can;t recall if it started before he was 19 months old (Max's current age) or not. But generally, my perception is Max hadn't shown the same interest in books as Jack, at least up to this point. Part of the problem is Jack being largely unwilling to be read to unless it was part of a bedtime routine, so Max didn;t get as much exposure as he does to other fun stuff (bikes, video games, baths, etc.).
Max's interest level began to increase once he started to realize Kristie reads to Jack every night before bed. In fact, he started a tradition (unwelcome, if you ask Jack), of climbing into Jack's bed and sitting squarely between Kristie and Jack and listening to Jack's story. Amazingly, he would sit through an entire Dr. Seuss book without interruption. Jack, of course, just wanted his one-on-one time with Mom, so now we have a nice routine of me reading to Max while Kristie reads to Jack.
The first couple of times Max and I did this routine, he got out of my lap at the end of the last book and hopped into bed. The last two nights, he's decided three stories is not enough and ends up crying himself to sleep after I turn off the light and shut the door. But hey — that's his choice.
Short story long, Max likes to read. And now he wants to read on his own. And he's also picking up some of the things we do with each book and acting them out himself. (An example here, from the "Going to Bed Book," is the last page where the animals "rock and rock and rock to sleep." Watch the video and it makes sense.) It makes me think of the time I saw Jack first go through all of the motions associated with "Pat the Bunny." Good times.
So enjoy the video. The little guy is talking a ton these days, and hopefully we can get some of those moments on video, too. He's at a really fun age right now (fully interactive, but pre-tantrum wars), and it's hard to remember everything he does for blog posts. Sorry we get to hog him!
Labels: Jack, Max, photos, video
Thursday, October 08, 2009
More from TMQ
A young buck near Fort Harrison, who might like Christmas even more than Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer, is ushering in the holiday season a bit early this year.
The mule-deer buck somehow got mixed up with a string of Christmas lights, and they're now hanging from his antlers and body, according to Kevin Cook, a game warden with Montana Fish, Wildlife and Parks. He said the agency started receiving reports about the decorated deer last week.
"We get reports about once a year regarding a deer with something in its antlers. One had a swing-set swing; once one had a clothesline with clothes still on it; and tomato cages aren't unusual," Cook said. "Last year, about this time, another buck with Christmas lights in his antlers was reported on the south end of town. I don't think it's the same deer." ...
"If he were to get entangled in a fence with the lights and become immobilized where we could get to him, we would do that. But trying to catch him without darting him is near impossible," Cook said.
He added that the only tranquilizer they have doesn't work well on deer and elk, and could do more harm than good.
"The mortality rate is high with this drug ... and puts them in a high-stress situation," Cook said. "The only good drug has to be used by a veterinarian, is extremely expensive, and is 10,000 times more powerful than morphine — if you get a drop on your skin you're dead. The last time we used that was for the moose that was hanging out by the Home Depot for a month."
Labels: Sucks to be this...
Food for thought
Is the Future of Newspapers Printing Them at Home? Home delivery of the New York Times now costs $63 a month, about the same as full cable TV service. At least you're getting something real for the money — as Michael Kinsley has pointed out, a typical newspaper subscription entails about $4 per month worth of paper thudding on your doorstep. That's just the paper. Everything about the newspaper business today seems messed up — fewer readers, rising subscription prices at a time of falling overall prices in the consumer price index, and of course, Internet competition. But the demise of the newspaper has been predicted before; claims of imminent newspaper demise go back to H.L. Mencken.Read the full column here
Can technology save newsprint? Here is the advance TMQ is hoping for: a print-cost breakthrough that allows you to print the newspaper yourself at home, eliminating delivery. Xerox recently rolled out a new generation of printers that use something called "solid ink" to cut the cost of color. Xerox's product is intended for the office market, where most printing occurs, but perhaps is an indicator there will be a cost breakthrough in home printing.
Already home printers are themselves cheap, though the ink is expensive. If "solid ink" or some other improvement cuts the price, here's what a future newspaper economy might look like: You subscribe, and each morning at whatever time you select, the newspaper transmits itself to your advanced printer, including, of course, the very latest news to that moment. Even with you paying for the ink and paper, that might cost less than $63 a month, since the newspaper subscription price — now basically a licensing fee — would go way down. You could set your printer to produce only the parts of the paper you actually read, reducing resource waste. A category of entry-level employment, newspaper delivery — once done by teens on bicycles, now often done by adults using cars — would be eliminated. But that's a lot better than all newspaper-related jobs being eliminated! And economic theory says you will take the money you save on newspaper delivery and spend it on something else, creating some other type of jobs. Newspapers would love to kiss their delivery problems goodbye: Everything from trucks stuck in traffic to the mob interference that has long plagued newspaper and magazine distribution.
A century ago, steam heat was made in central plants, then piped to homes and offices; then once the individual furnace was practical, heating costs declined, as did resource use per capita for heating. Moving newspaper printing from huge, hot, thundering presses to a small device in your home might have a similar welcome effect on the news biz, cutting costs while reducing paper and petroleum waste. And you could put on a Perry White visor and cry, "Stop the presses!" whenever you wished.
Today, one worry about General Motors is that it could go out of business at the very moment it finally, after decades of fits and starts, is building high-quality products with decent gas mileage. There is a similar haunting aspect to the problems newspapers are experiencing — right now, newspapers are the best product they have ever been. From the Times to your local paper, the news biz of 2009 is at its pinnacle of quality. Newspapers themselves have never been more comprehensive or immediate in content. Even taking into account infuriating errors, media accuracy is the best ever. With color print and lots of graphics, newspapers have never looked better. Newspaper Web sites provide an entire new category of instant information that, a mere decade ago, no amount of money could buy. Online newspaper archives provide an entirely new category of research tool that didn't exist a short time ago. As recently as the mid-1990s, to look up a newspaper article, you trudged to a library and manually scanned cumbersome microfiche — finding a single article could take several hours. Now this task is performed in seconds from any laptop. Even my local suburban paper has a good online archive!
For all our grousing about what appears in the paper, right now American newspapers as a group are the very best they have ever been. Subscribe, or patronize the local newsbox. You will be sorry if the newspaper industry fades away. And don't say, "I'll just use the Internet for news." The vast majority of the news presented on the Internet originates as a newspaper story.
Labels: wise words
Wednesday, October 07, 2009
Saturday in Libertyville
1. Jack pushing Max's stroller en route to the LHS Homecoming parade.
| From Pops and K's |
2. Jack, Max and Kristie waiting for the parade to start.
| From Pops and K's |
Labels: Jack, Libertyville, Max, photos




